Anjali(Thursday, 17 September 2009 20:04)

One definite change I am trying to bring in my life is complete positive attitude towards everything I do and also try to look positive in every other person who comes in my life. Sometimes I slip away from this path but constant determination to continue on this path puts me back. I have learned to control "Anger". Basically my short tempered nature put me in trouble in my personal life many times by just controlling few things in life we can really make life beautiful and pain free. when anger flares I loose the sense of judgement. The virtues like love and forgiveness are destroyed.In case if I get angry then instead of staying angry I also try to calm down. This way, the problems caused by anger would be removed or minimized. I am trying to cultivate virtues such as forgiveness, penance, and repentance. Just by changing attitude toward certain things in life I made my life really better. I want to bring this complete change in my life so the focus is just improving myself so much then I have no time left to cricize other or get angry.

Anshu(Friday, 18 September 2009 04:19)

This question is really a tough one....bcoz to answer this we really need to introspect ourselves really well.And as it is well said "We should never judge others" but theharsh reality oflife is that being human we develop that niche of judging others and often their diverse behavior tends to make us think negative of them in our attempt tojudge them....so if I overcome this trait of mine of judging others and classifying their deeds as wrong....I'll be encapsulated withnegative aroma in life and life would become stagnant ....so according to me I should stopjudging others...and theday I achieve this I think Life would be much better

Nrender Ahluwalia(Friday, 18 September 2009 12:26)

I think we all should do to spread some positive energy in our surrounding. Very small things in our routine we can do it viz. try to see few positive points to we meet and appreciate them.... try to make smile and laugh to whom so ever we meet at least once during our meet......must do some introspection for the day and try to rectify if we feel we have done something wrong by intentionally or unintentionally....... Must thank to Almighty for everything............Amen :)

neha(Sunday, 08 November 2009 12:02)

i think there's a lot i need to change but the most important one is to forget nt joz forgive, there's no point in forgiving self and others if we r not able to forget it, grip on the past never let us take a step ahead, i need to develop this let go feel in me, whtever happen's one shud be at an east with our past...i need to cultivate these two line's in life
FEAR KNOCKED..
FAITH OPENED..
NOONE WAS THERE..

Amandeep(Friday, 11 December 2009 00:00)

1. let go
2. Stop judging,analyzing others. Accept people for who they are from inside and not how they act.

Geeta Patil(Sunday, 17 January 2010 07:48)

Want to focus on positive thinking,looking at life with hope all the time.find happiness in small smalll things.want to do good for society.Be happy and make others happy.

Nren(Friday, 18 September 2009 22:26)

May be every one like to be nice and pretend to be nice, on the contrary every one has some evil too in their heart so might be for good or for some more good reasons or may be because of afraid of self or for some good cause, one's does not want to expose or disclose that negativity to the all..... but at the end, most of the time we are known for what we are not what we pretend.......... that is my feeling rest, exceptions are always there and I would like to see here........ wish our soul mates share here.

John narayan(Sunday, 20 September 2009 22:59)

Naa sun boora naa dekh boora na bol boora,we try Living by that very teachings, but alais fall prey to the evil vices due to our imperfections.Nobody wants to admit that we are imperfect and therefore prone to behave and steer away from the true self and paint a rosy picture of mein hoon Maahan BLa Bla...The fact is we are mere katputliyan dor toh kisse aur ke haath mein hai naachyaga
to naachna padega for approx 70yrs average on this Planet.Baat samaj mein aaye Muniya??

neha(Sunday, 08 November 2009 12:05)

so that we can overhear the voice within, it hurts too see our own flaws soo by shouting we pretend to shadow our our soul altough we know what's right...acceptence takes time..

:)(Friday, 18 December 2009 07:34)

Anger
Why do we shout in Anger?
A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?'

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calmness, we shout for that.'

'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.

Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.'

Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...'

The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

"When you argue do not let your hearts get distant. Do not say words increase the distance between each other. Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return...."

Nren(Friday, 22 January 2010 00:33)

What is Envy and what is jealousy?